My friend asked me what I looked for in a man so I am posting what I would like in my future husband...
I was too embarrassed to post in my current blog
( kimichiworld.blogspot.com) so I'm posting it here.

Basically I have lived this life without a man so I'm pretty indepenent.  I need a guy who can understand that.  I need him to know when to give me my space but at the same time to be there even when I say I don't need him...because that is just my stubborn side speaking.
I need a man who knows what I'm thinking so he can do the right thing at the right time.  I need to feel comfortable around him so I can act myself....be it goofy or serious.  I can show him my inconfident side...a side that I don't like to show most people.

I need him to know how to support me when I want to yank out my hair, to bawl like a baby, to scream at the top of my lungs, to jump up and down like a little kid out of happiness....I need him to take that all in.

I need a man who is a little more wild so that I will have adventure in my life (even when I'm 60).  But I don't need a man who will risk life just for it.  I don't want added worries.

If possible, I'd like a man who could sing for I lack in that department.  I would add playing a musical instrument just because I also think music makes life a lot nicer.  I am a romantic and would love him to compose a song and play it on the piano for me.

I want a man who is funny.  I need  serious man, but not so serious where I only hear about the facts.  I need a man who can bring a smile on my face even when I'm crying.  It doesn't mean him making stupid faces but having a good sense of humor where it counts.

I need a man who loves children.  I want to have children someday and I need someone who I know will love them more than he loves himself.  I want him to be proud and not afraid to show his love to his children.
I want a man who can get his hands dirty with his children....playing outside with them or drawing pictures with them.  I guess since I'm here, I'll add patience is a very important part of the raising kids.
I can't have a man who has a short temper.

I can't cook so I'd love someone who loves to create dishes just for the sake of creating them.  I don't mind if he wants me too cook but I can depend on him for a helping hand.

I want someone who shows me new things in life.  Either it be his passion of a hobby or his outlook.  I want to learn things from this man.  So I guess I want him to be smarter than me.  I think maybe this sounds really stupid but I feel if you can learn something from someone, you will never feel a dull moment with him.

I also need to be able to trust this man.  With my life, with my secrets, with my passion.  I want to know he will guard my life with his.  I want to know he would never cheat on me.  I want to know he would never hurt me by deceit.

I guess these are a lot of things to ask for and that it's hard for a man to come along that contain all of these demands.  But as I titled this entry...MY DREAM MAN, I am just letting things flow.

As for physical traits, I prefer a man who has brown or black hair to blonde.  Someone told me that if your partner has a hair color similar to your own, you feel more relaxed and comfortable.  If I could, I want a man who when he smiles, his eyes twinkle.  I would also like a man who has dimples.  I don't know why, but I think those are the cutest things.

I would like a man who is taller than me and well built.  Not macho man but someone who has enough muscle to use it when needed.  If I could, he'd play soccer cuz soccer players have the most sexy legs!  I'd have his back be broad and his chest without hair....ha ha ha...getting a little specific there.